Gradin.com was established in 1998 to grant an Internet presence to Gradins’ throughout the world. Since that time, in which the primary use was for email, the site has undergone many changes.

The latest of these changes is a new design, incorporating the four seasons into an ever-changing theme. Until the wheel should turn again, enjoy Summer’s fine palette.

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The Sins of Man

July 23rd, 2008

We’ve returned home from Philadelphia, though home is not exactly as we left it.  There is a gray storm cloud hovering above us; perhaps still building in power and ferocity, or lingering remnants of a thunderhead.  I’m not talking about the weather, though the hurricane located near Corpus Christi does invoke a palpable invocation of the mood.

Two very dear friends were struck apart suddenly and violently by the squandering of trust and respect by one from the other.  The consequences for such a thing are no mystery, though the act mystifies many of us.  How is it that when a relationship is ended so suddenly that it is as if someone died?  Did the offender die, or the offended?  Does this change their lives forever, or can the shattered pieces coallesce back into solidarity.  Perhaps the answer to that question is really the stuff that defines someone.  Do you care enough to persist?  The hardest thing in the world may well be the acknowledgment of fault; the recovery of abasement despite humiliation.

To the offender: I am not immune to my friends’ pain.  I cannot abide such disrespect to any of my friends, especially not from another.  However, I am also one of the best friends to have; even though my respect has been scarred by this event, I am willing to lend my support and help where it is appreciated.  I’m not the best friend because I can forgive…I’m the best because I won’t settle for anything but an attitude for reparations.  After that, you two can determine your own futures.

Twitter Updates for 2008-07-22

July 22nd, 2008
  • Just ran out to Darling’s Coffee on 20th and Pine. Lox and cream cheese bagel, finally! #
  • I ate the center of my son’s cinnamon bun. There’s a special place in Hell for me. #

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Twitter Updates for 2008-07-21

July 21st, 2008
  • Just saw a Flickr photo by Tim Williams on display @ the Phily Zoo! #
  • Blitzkrieg of activities today; zoo, Big Bus tour, Natural Science Museum, and now the pirates exhibit @ the Franklin. #

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Twitter Updates for 2008-07-20

July 20th, 2008
  • Wedding at the Ritz was very fancy! Balthazar made many lady-friends tonight. #
  • Checking out of the Ritz Carlton. Say goodbye to luxury. #
  • We hit the Philadelphia Aquarium today. Touched sharks, skates, and jellyfish! #

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Twitter Updates for 2008-07-19

July 19th, 2008
  • The day’s finally over - we’re resting easy at the the Ritz Carlton in Philadelphia. #
  • Ritz Carlton: Super swank, expensive rooms, luxury hotel. Internet access is still an additional charge. Good thing I’m resourceful. #
  • Dowtown Phily - kids swim in the water fountains! #

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Twitter Updates for 2008-07-18

July 18th, 2008
  • Last preparations: leaving for Philly in the morning. #
  • Arrived in Philly and ready to go only 6 hours late! #

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Twitter Updates for 2008-07-17

July 17th, 2008
  • Just ordered the iHome ZN9 clock radio for the Zune! It’s finally available. #
  • Making an odd sort of lunch: asapragus, celery, and broccoli in the steamer. I added basil, thyme, and celery salt. #
  • One of my cats went completely insane when I gave her a collar with a bell on it. She hid under the bed all day. #

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Top 5: Things You Wanted to Know About Me

July 14th, 2008

The meme is apparently now a lost word; used only by uncool dads and hipless (as in the lack of being hip) half-wits.  I’m getting on in years, relatively speaking, and am inclined to use such lingo as to embarrass those who would be so easily offended.

For lack of better alternatives, I bring to you the current meme on my plate.  Young whipper-snappers may be unfamiliar with this word, but it is essentially an Internet chain-letter.  Spazzmanda passed this on to me from her blog, where she refers to such activities as “tagging.”  I always thought that was a cultural art of defacement by way of graffiti, but what does an old fart like me know.

The Rules: Rules are posted at the beginning. At the end of the post, the player tags 5 people and posts their names. Then the player goes to each of the “named” people’s blogs and leaves a comment, letting them know they’ve been tagged and asking them to read your blog. If you’ve been tagged, you do the same, letting the person who tagged you know when you’ve posted your answer. Your answer, of course, is the answer to the following questions. Here we go!

1. What was I doing 10 years ago? One decade ago I was two months from my 2nd wedding anniversary with my lovely wife, Amy.  We had no children, though we had pets.  We were in our first year at our first house together (and current house).  Amy was still in school at North Georgia College and State University (though it may not have been a State University at the time), and I was working for…Whittman-Hart, perhaps.  I was a consultant beginning to cut my teeth on information systems security.  It would be my primary job and objective for the next several years.  I registered gradin.com for the first time - it was a standard 2-year registration and cost me $70.00 (I think my last registration was $8.95 for a year).  I was finally able to access my awesome Mindspring account web space using my rocking X2 US Robotics Sportster (externel) modem via www.gradin.com.  I was working in Allaire’s Cold Fusion, though I couldn’t afford a license for the server to host my own site using their technology.  I used Allaire’s Homesite as my primary editor with Photoshop and Fractal Painter as my graphics packages.  I think I was trying to get onto Bellsouth’s xDSL beta program, but with no luck due to my distance from the carrier.  I was, however, involved with Wachovia’s beta online account access.  It was a glorified BBS - awesome!

2. What are 5 things on my to-do list today? I’ve got ESX hosts to convert to 3.5i, installable.  SAN storage to attach, and VMs to migrate both through traditional migrations, as well as the new and improved Storage VMotion.  I also have some process proposal documentation to get done for the collected efforts of the Norcross lab engineering team, as well as that of our Hillsboro office.  I hope to get some ping-pong in at lunch, ride my bike 10 miles back to my car, and then facilitate a drum circle for 100 people in northeast Georgia with some friends.

3. Snacks I enjoy: Have you tried my nuts?  They’re salty and dimensionally variant.  I enjoy the texture especially, though others are just happy I am able to share - there’s more than enough for everyone to enjoy!  I also like beef jerky and granola bars.

4. Places I’ve lived: I’ve had a good spread in my life, though as of late my homestead has been very static.  I began in Ocean Springs, MI; moved to Plano, TX, and then jumped to San Diego, CA shortly thereafter.  We moved a couple of times there, but finally moved out the state to Tuscon, AZ.  From there, we departed for Waycross, GA, and then onto Gainesville, GA where I live now.  I’ve moved several times throughout both of these places in Georgia, and I’ve been here the longest amount of time so far.

5. Things I would do if I were a billionaire: This is actually the title of a post I’ve been working on for a while now.  It’s a recurring theme throughout our decade+ of marriage, and one that will most likely continue to develop and mature in time.  The most boring thing I think of from our list is to pay-off debt and acquire some commercial real estate to lease.  There’s money accumulation prospects in that, so we would do well to set ourselves for the inevitable loss of said billions through the frivolous purchases from our list.  There are two more intriguing opportunities: 1) Develop a waterfront district on Lake Lanier - a boardwalk with shops and dining - that aids in the lake’s restoration efforts, as well as providing some awareness about the lake’s ecosystem.  2) Convert an old mill on the outskirts of town into a turn-of-the-century arts and crafts guild.  History tells us that these guilds are mere congregations of passionate people in the arts and crafts and generally have no ability to sustain themselves financially.

5 “Tagged”

  1. Sean Williams
  2. Jason Darling (Bleh.  MySpace)
  3. James Palmer
  4. Israel Lawson
  5. Steve Tucker

The Hot is Here to Stay

June 22nd, 2008

Well…that’s it, folks; it’s official.  Summer is here and it’s not going to be getting any cooler for a while.  Enjoy the longer days, bar-b-q’s, swimming, and sun.  The lake still isn’t up to a satisfactory level for those using it recreationally, but at least it’s still here!

Balthazar and I swam in it just this weekend.  It felt quite nice, though I did receive my admonishment from Amy about diseases and bacteria living on our skin after the swim.  I didn’t shower either of us afterwards, which apparently is the logical choice after soaking in the lake’s bacterial soup.

No Polluter Commuter!

June 20th, 2008

I’m not much of an activist, but I have taken action in support of our environment.  As of this past Monday, I began what I hope to be a consistent plan to reduce my gas consumption, reduce mileage on my car, and increase my fitness level.  I am currently riding a bicycle for the most idle-intensive leg of my 40-mile commute to work.  Depending on the season, the idle-intensive phase consists of approximately 30-45 minutes of time over about 10 miles.  I’m working my way up to this distance, possibly further, with each day that I commute on the bike.  I started Monday with a 3-mile ride; Wednesday was 4 miles, and now Friday is at 6 miles.  Friday is unique in that I went off my normal route to meet-up with a friend for the ride in.  That may have added an extra mile.  I’m trying to keep my average speed at or above 10 miles/hour so as to one day ride the whole distance in an hour or less.  So far, this has not been a real problem.  I have been able to keep my average up over 15mph during this innagural week.  It has been 10 years or more since I last rode any, so I can only assume I’ll get better.  The hardest part has been finding a place to park my car so it won’t get towed while I’m at work!  That, and getting over saddle-soreness.  I was told before that that was the part of my body that needed to get broken in slowly.  A person of moderate fitness can probably hop on a bike and ride 12 miles, but the saddle pains will make them regret it.  So it’s best to work your way up, if for nothing else, to break-in the tush.

At any rate, the ride has been exhilerating and not nearly as difficult as I thought, even in the summer heat.  I haven’t ridden in the rain yet, but expect to.  I’m still trying to outfit myself appropriately; bike gear and accessories can be very expensive.  Right now, I’m trying to get some good panniers to carry my stuff.  I’m using a great backpack to carry my laptop and a change of clothes, but this is less than ideal for several reasons.

As a side benefit of breaking out the old bike (13-14 years old, actually), Balthazar took an immediate interest in riding with me.  He has done really well in picking up on the mechanics of riding.  He’s still in training wheels for his first week, but I don’t think it will take him long to graduate.

It’s so funny because I’ve had this bike forever and never put any thought towards trying to make time for it.  When I was younger and didn’t have a car, the bike was my only mode of transportation.  I don’t know why it never occured to me that I could again replace my transportation with a bicycle, even if only for a small portion of my total commute.

So here I am, doing my part for the environment and being green.  Fitting.  I am sporting a tattoo of the Green Man on my shoulder blade.